Hey guys! How’s your week going?
Mine has been good, but my schedule is out of whack because we are still traveling. We were supposed to receive our paperwork today…but it didn’t come in. Since it’s the weekend now, we have to wait until Monday to receive it. Grrr…I wanted to throw a small fit this morning, but then I remembered that God is in control, and His timing is perfect. Trust. A constant life lesson being learned by this girl.
Sorry for the lack of posting this week, it’s always crazy when we are out in the states because we are getting all those things done that we can’t get done living in the middle of nowhere. :)
However today I wanted to write about a topic that I’ve read and thought about quite a bit, but never really sat down, thought through, and formulated my opinion. So here it goes…I probably won’t be popular, but here’s my opinion on cheat days.
*All opinions expressed are my own, I am not a certified nutrition or fitness professional, all I write about has been learned through personal experience.
What are they: Many people who are watching what they eat or trying to eat healthier may implement something called a cheat day. Which is when they pick a specific day during the week where they can “cheat” on their healthy eating. Choosing to eat food, or dessert, that was formerly deemed “bad” in their realm of day to day food choices.
For example: Say Jane has been eating healthy all week, and exercising. She has scheduled a cheat day on Saturday and on said day has a lunch out planned with a friend. They will grab burgers and oh, those delicious seasoned fries, and afterwards she’ll indulge in the caramel macchiato with extra whip cream that she’s been jonesing for all week.
Then Sunday it’s right back to the grindstone.
Why I think healthy eating and cheat days just don’t jive:
1. Healthy eating is a 24/7 lifestyle.
In a conversation with a friend this last week we were discussing that eating healthy is a lifestyle, not a diet. A change of how you eat 24/7, using food to fuel your body in the way God intended it to be fueled.
In my opinion this means eating the most natural foods that we can most responsibly consume, in their most natural state. While listening to our bodies, to be sure to consume the proper amounts of the nutrients that we most require.
Having a cheat day is like having a vacation from our lifestyle….every week. Source
But is it…
I don’t know about you, but I already feel like I’m behind on work, ministry, projects I want to accomplish…and I certainly don’t feel like adding “behind on my healthy lifestyle goals” to that list if I can help it. Choosing to cheat in my opinion, is lack of focus, and commitment. If we really want something, we go for it, 110%, we don’t pull back, or take a day off. Lifestyles are lifestyles and that’s just my humble opinion. Which leads me to my next point…
2. Cheating takes us 2 steps back.
We’ve all been there, like “Jane” who I cited above. We’ve worked hard all week and are feeling super great, and then “cheat day” rolls around. We have the freedom, and the lack of will power, so we take it, and tell ourselves it’s our cheat day so it’s okay. And we fall 2 steps back, after working so hard to bound forward.
Life is all about balance, don’t get me wrong…but think about your work for a second. Would you work hard all week on a project, complete it with pride, and then not turn it in to your boss on time just because it was your day off, and you weren’t required too? I would hope not. That one little move would negate all of the hard work you had previously invested.
Please hear me out, I’m not saying that you are a terrible person if you had a cupcake at your daughter’s birthday party, and now you’ve taken two steps back, and who knows if you’ll ever reach your goals. No…that is not my point at all.
My point is: I guess I don’t understand why someone would make conscious efforts, when they are going to make a conscious decision to exploit those conscious efforts? That is what cheat days are to me.
With that said, let me say something about healthy eating.
Healthy eating does not mean never eating certain foods.
I mean you all know I love me some dark chocolate!
It means putting the most healthy foods into our bodies that we can in our present and given circumstances. It’s about balance, enjoying life, and not being so hard on ourselves.
So if you are at your mother-in-law’s, and she has made that killer artery blocking lasagna again what do you do? You eat a proper portion, balanced with fiber rich veggies, and a tall glass of water, and call it a victory. Catch my drift?
Nobody is 100% perfect 100% of the time. Source
Healthy eating for me is a little dark chocolate when I’m craving it, or homemade mac & cheese when comfort food is what’s in order.
But making a conscious planned choice to be unhealthy? That just doesn’t fit the lifestyle I’m trying to portray here on the blog, or practice with my family.
And one more thing…
3. Putting “cheat foods” into our bodies doesn’t feel good.
A night long belly ache the desperate effort to run it off in the morning, and the feeling of failure as we end up walking half our run because we have a pizza rock still sitting in our gut. Been there…don’t ever want to go back.
When we eat “cheat foods” our body feels like it’s under attack. We feel yucky. Period. And no one wants to feel that way. We work hard to be full of energy, stay free from sickness, and live life the healthiest way possible. So choosing to have a day where we know we won’t feel our best afterwards, is just crazy to me. I won’t do it. Plain and simple. But that’s my humble opinion.
But…do I believe that you can do “cheat days” in the healthy way? Yes. Some people can.Those of us with a will-power of steel.
Personally, when I have indulged in junky foods, it just makes me crave them more. And I’d rather not be under that kind of pressure. Healthy decisions and keeping my diet in perspective regarding my situation, and environment is a much more manageable lifestyle for me. Just sayin’.
So…that’s how I feel about cheat days. If you like cheat days this is in no way a personal attack, I understand that certain things work for certain people, and if you dig cheat days and they help you keep on track with your healthy lifestyle goals than by all means do what works.
Cheat days…love them or loathe them? Tell me about your experience with the cheat day method. Does it work for you? Why or why not? What is your favorite personal healthy eating strategy?